Monday, 20 February 2017

"Everyone change..."

"Everyone change..."

Someone said it to me. I remember it clearly. A bit few minutes after 12am 1st January 2013. At that time, I don't completely understand what was she trying to say by that. Well, at that time, I'm pretty naive and faith in humanity still high..(hehehe) Anyway, she kind of important person for me. So I try to understand her reason. Her words keep wandering in my head. Quite sometimes to be honest. Until I can finally understand. Or at least, agree to that statement even tho she might means the different thing than mine. It is true. Everyone does change. It's pretty simple. Who you are today might not the same you yesterday, or last year or 5 years ago. Deny it as much as you can. But we did change. The real question is not whether we change or not? The exact question is, why did we change?  The answer might be different for everyone. Some might change because of what they've been through. Some might change just to fit in. And follow by numerous other reasons. But one thing for sure and be the reason for all of us to change at the some point in our life is simply because we grow up. Changes is a part of growing up. Just like how we can't avoid growing up, we also can't avoid the change. Big change or small change, it's different with everyone. Good or bad, I guess we are the one to decide.